Are You Being Ghosted From Search Results?
What Thought Leaders Must Know to be Found Online in the New World of AI

If it feels like your online visibility has vanished into the digital fog, you’re not imagining it.
I’ve been having conversations all month with brilliant Thought Leaders who feel like they’ve done “all the right things” - they’ve invested in SEO (Search Engine Optimization) services , written great content, built a beautiful website - and yet… they’re still invisible.
It’s not that your website isn’t valuable. It’s that the rules of the digital game have changed.
We’re in the middle of a major evolution in how people search, find, and choose their go-to experts. And if your SEO isn’t keeping up?
You might be getting ghosted. π»
Let’s talk about what’s changed, what you can do, and how to bring your authority back from the digital dead.
π§ The Shift from SEO to AEO (and Why It Matters)
Not long ago, SEO was the king of digital visibility. Show up on page one of Google, and you won. Simple(ish).
But today? The rise of AI tools like ChatGPT, Perplexity, and Google's Search Generative Experience has completely transformed the landscape.
Now, people are skipping the scroll and heading straight to tools that give them the answer - not just a list of links.
Welcome to the era of AEO: Answer Engine Optimization.
Instead of asking, “How do I rank on page 1?” the better question is now: “How do I become the trusted answer AI tools and search engines pull from?”
Because let’s be honest: If you're not showing up as the answer, you're not showing up at all.
And that’s scarier than any haunted house. ποΈ
π Why Most Websites Are Already Invisible
The typical website wasn’t built for this new reality.
It was built like a digital brochure - nice-looking, maybe even informative - but passive.
And today’s searchers? They’re not browsing. They’re asking. They’re looking for fast answers. And they’re relying on AI to find them.
This means your authority isn’t just based on being online... it’s based on how well your platform can respond to searcher intent, both in traditional SEO and in AI-driven queries.
Websites alone aren’t cutting it anymore. You need a full Authority Platform that:
- Speaks your ideal client's language
- Answers real questions they're searching for
- Builds trust and visibility... simultaneously
- Works across Google and AI tools
So how do we make that shift?
π§ 3 Ways to Optimize for AEO - Starting Today
Let’s bring your visibility back to life with some practical, strategic moves you can implement right now:
1. Publish consistent blog content that answers real questions
Yes, blogs are still relevant, but not just for stuffing keywords.
Today’s blog content needs to be:
- Question-driven
- Client-centered
- Strategically structured
Think: “What would my ideal client type into ChatGPT when looking for someone like me?” Write THAT.
Search engines and AI tools love content that answers clear, specific questions. Bonus? That same content can feed your email list, repurpose into social posts, and build authority across platforms.
2. Add Video FAQs to your YouTube channel and your website
AI is watching video content now - not just reading your site.
Video boosts time on page (great for SEO), shows off your personality (important for trust), and gives AI more signals to understand what you’re an expert in.
Start with 3–5 short (60–90 second) videos answering your most commonly asked questions.
Pro tip: Post them to both your website and YouTube for maximum visibility.
3. Structure your content for humans and algorithms
This is a big one.
If your content is all dense paragraphs, AI and search engines might struggle to understand it, and real people will definitely click away.
Instead, use:
- Clear, specific headlines
- Bullet points and bold formatting
- Defined sections (like this one!)
- Calls-To-Action that guide the reader
You’re not just writing for your clients. You’re also structuring your content so AI knows who you help, what you do, and why you’re the trusted expert.
π― The Bottom Line
Your visibility crisis probably isn’t about you... it’s about your platform.
You're likely not being ghosted because you're not brilliant. You're being ghosted because your digital presence hasn't evolved with the way people search.
But the good news?
This is fixable!
You don’t need to chase algorithms. You need to anchor your authority in content that answers questions, speaks your client’s language, and works in both Google and AI results.
π¦ Want Help Making This Shift?
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels and start building an Authority Platform that actually gets you found by your ideal clients…
Let’s talk.
π― We’ll clarify what’s hurting your visibility.
π We'll map out a path to fix it.
π οΈ And we'll create a strategy that brings your authority back to life - and keeps it working for you 24/7.
Because you deserve to be seen for the expert you already are.
And if you’re feeling haunted by outdated SEO?
I’m your guide out of the fog. π¦
Click here to book a Strategy Call.
π Happy Halloween! π





